So many wonderful women have something called Wonder Woman Syndrome. They feel that they can do it all. They have immeasurable strength, stamina, and willpower. Like Whitney Houston’s song “I’m Every Woman” says, “I’ll do it naturally because I’m every woman it’s all in me”. Too many women feel that they can carry the load …
We all know someone who has mastered having a victim mentality. People who hold this mindset tend to be pessimistic, and wallow in self-pity. They are borderline addict to gaining sympathy and attention from others. Often the ones who express victim mentality are in reality sabotaging their own life. They blame others for their misfortunes. …
One of the most valuable things that we can earn in this lifetime is the trust of others. Trust is normally not freely given to someone, it is earned. People earn trust in a variety of ways. They may consistently show care, concern, or be of service to another. We facilitate others to trust in …
There reaches a time that we must tell our shadow self to step aside so that our light energy self can shine. How often do we allow our shadow self to lead in life? Every time we hesitate to take action, doubt ourselves, and allow ourselves to be skeptical about something we are wanting, needing, …
Perhaps our need for perfection is the result of a desire to receive affirmation from others. Seeking others’ approval and vindication is a dangerous path to tread. As Will Smith once said about self-esteem “How dangerous it is to allow other people to determine how you’re going to feel about YOU…other peoples’ opinions is a …
Many of us have heard about the law of attraction. The concept that when we visualize something that we want, believe that it is a part of our life, and take action to make it so, then that which we desire will manifest into reality. It essentially comes out of our mind and heart and …
Ahhh…the unknown. So many times in life we move forward despite being blind to what lies ahead. For example, we may need to drive to the grocery store for some food. We get into our car and start heading to the store. On the way there we discover that there is a freight train that …
It’s important for each of us to establish who we are and stick to it. Those who will love and support us for our authentic self will be by our side, while those who truly don’t will not be in our life for long. Be unapologetically who you are. Stay true to your inner spirit. …
There once was a teacher by the name of Mr. Cox, who would start each of his classes with the phrase “Work hard now, so that you can play later.” This phrase was repeated on a daily basis with the hopes that his students would eventually memorize it and come to understand its meaning. Mr. …
When we are young, we are taught that achievement is its own great reward. We are placed on the conveyor belt of schooling generally starting with kindergarten and moving along through the various grade levels of education. After we graduate from high school, we normally jump on the next conveyor belt of college, starting out …